Does anybody recognize the difference in family relationships regarding Europeans as opposed to All-Americans?

Good bless you, you just don't know how hard it is to get people to see what it is you see. Understand it isn't a small matter of american individualism, quite the opposite. See something quite perverse and morbid happens to a person when you tell them to live for themselves..... they loss all sense of purpose! Its just the way it is, people were never met to live just for themselves and the fact is, its destroing us and most of the western thinking world. Without hertiage or family you loss alot of faith in yourself as a person, you become like every one else, expendable, unspecial, and unimportant. Just another Joe, its because of this individual bs that were beganing to actually destory the individual its just a crazy run away process. They forgot what it met to be a special individual, its no longer based solely on were you've been, but has became a big matter of were your going. Since no one can really have a "special" future, (we all share it equally) we end up feeling these feelings. See the only thing that made us "special" that made us individuals is our past! Or family, or history, or individuality. They've got us by the most important thing in the world to a human being's social exsistence, they've tooken away our indentity! Because of this we all might as well be called "Joe"...... and in order to stand up and make a name we need our family, unfornatunely because of the way this is set up, were all to insecure to turn to them for help.... you know the old "I've got my own problems, go live your own life" bs.....